Thursday, May 7, 2009
The Irony of Love
Loving the right person at the wrong time having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life.. and sometimes you think your over that person but when you see them smile at you you'll suddenly realize that your just pretending to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again. For some, they think letting go is one way of expressing how much you love the person, In my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else.. most relationships tend to fail because the absence of love , love is always present, its just one was being loved to little! as we all know the heart beats on the left, maybe thats the reason the heart is not always right. most often we fall in love with the person we think we love but to only discover that for them, we are just past times. while the one who truly loves us, remains either a friend or a stranger. Let go when your hurting to much, give up when love isn't enough, and move on when things aren't like before, for sure there is someone out there who will love you even more!!
Sunday, May 3, 2009
15 Maybes
1. Maybe . . . We were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
2. Maybe . . . When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us.
3. Maybe . . . It is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.
4. Maybe . . . The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
5.. Maybe . . . The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.
6. Maybe . . . You should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of and want to do.
7. Maybe . . . There are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a brother, a sister, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. So once they are around you, appreciate them more.
8. Maybe . . . The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
9. Maybe . . . You should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person, too.
10. Maybe . . . You should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone. Profound!
11. Maybe . . . Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.
12. Maybe . . . Happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.
13. Maybe . . . You shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile .
14. Maybe . . . You should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.
15. Maybe . . . You should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling but when you die, you can be the one who is smiling and everyone around you crying.
2. Maybe . . . When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us.
3. Maybe . . . It is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.
4. Maybe . . . The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
5.. Maybe . . . The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.
6. Maybe . . . You should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of and want to do.
7. Maybe . . . There are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a brother, a sister, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. So once they are around you, appreciate them more.
8. Maybe . . . The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
9. Maybe . . . You should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person, too.
10. Maybe . . . You should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone. Profound!
11. Maybe . . . Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.
12. Maybe . . . Happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.
13. Maybe . . . You shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile .
14. Maybe . . . You should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.
15. Maybe . . . You should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling but when you die, you can be the one who is smiling and everyone around you crying.
Friday, April 24, 2009
Finding My Self
Finding our self is an enlightening experience. We become self-sufficient. We can do things for others without any expectations of return. We are no longer a needy child and we become utterly grateful for all those things people have done for us in the past. Finding our self is a time of developing a philosophy or belief system that can carry us through the rest of our life. When we love our self and what we are, we will savor and enjoy both life's pain and pleasures.
Finding our self is not easy, but how can we be our self if we never felt connected to who we are, and we want to find whatever makes us who we are.
I know I’m too old for this but I guess they are right, I really don’t know what I Want, Whom I Want, What I need, Whom I need and I guess I have to figure it out by my self... all by my self!
Monday, April 20, 2009
Moving On The Hardest Way
I won’t be hoping, I won’t be waiting anymore
And I won’t shed these tears just like before
I won’t be loving you but I ain’t closing my door
I’ll no longer be an option and I won’t ask for more
I will be suppressing these feelings but I won’t turn my back
I will be enduring these pain but I won’t be running away
I’ll still be standing here, in the same spot where I met you
While trying to move on the hardest way…
I will be suppressing these feelings but I won’t turn my back
I will be enduring these pain but I won’t be running away
I’ll still be standing here, in the same spot where I met you
While trying to move on the hardest way…
I’ll deny this feeling but I won’t deny I loved you
I’ll try to stop thinking but I won’t stop thinking of you
I’ll be doing fine outside but inside I may be bleeding
Because silently I’ll endure the pain, silently I’m hurting
I won’t be showing you I love you still but I’ll show you I care
I won’t be running for you anymore but I’ll show you I’ll be there
I won’t be looking back at you but I’ll always be watching your back
I won’t be showing you I’m tearing apart but I’ll show you I’ll be smiling
Because I know someday I’m moving on, this thing’ll stop
Someday when my heart’s so used to this pain it’ll just give up
Someday when I get tired of hurting,
I won’t be holding on anymore but letting go
Someday when I’ve finally learned the lessons of pain,
perhaps someday it’ll be over…
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